Second chances never end for your true love. It’s just plainly “limitless.”
Tell me I’m wrong. You can’t.
How many times have you been hurt but how many times more have you forgiven? Your giving back is always twice as much as you take because when it’s real, you never want to lose it. But if it’s not, it is easy for you to commit things that can tarnish the relationship. The reason? Simply because you don’t care enough.
When do you stop?
It is a normal human condition to want to share. But it is pretty odd if the sharing includes your partner.
You don’t do that because as humans we are people and not a commodity. Cheating is a kind of sin that is meant. Considering the gravity of it, it is actually something not worth forgiving at all. However, they say people can change but note that if it was done once, it can be done over and over, again and again.
Cheating. Cheating is a sin that is brewed. It is planned. First, your partner meets someone, then they start communicating. Then they start hiding. And then they engage in activities they shouldn’t have engaged in. And then they get caught and then he tells you he loves you.
If a person loves you, he won’t plan on hurting you in secret; he would be afraid to lose you because no matter if he haven’t met all the women in the world, he thinks you are all the woman in the world.
If he did cheat once, OK, maybe he got carried away. But if he did it twice or more or worse, he never admits to it, pack your bags and leave. He is not a man after all. He is just staying with you for convenience but he does not have a deep respect for you nor for the love that you think is real.
Love is not dependence
Love is not dependence nor it is fear. If you stay just because you don’t know how it will be, you’re not in love, you’re dependent.
And when you are, you give the person the power to hurt you again and to imprison you in an illusion of a complete family and a happy one. A happy family is never built on lies.
Free yourself from the burden.
Let go of the baggage.
A woman does not always need a man to be strong or to to make it in life.
A good mother does not need a man who survives his family on betrayal nor does your children need a father who tell them respect is important but does otherwise.
When does second chances stop? Whenever you decide to. It’s your call. You are a hurricane. Stop being a breeze.